The Pyramid Of Sensation

Try licking your own clitor's, your moan zone, and you'll be trying all night to pleasure yourself. But try your finger, or use a toy, and suddenly you're in the throes of the pleasure zone. And how much of that can you do before you succumb to the pleasure you get from it? Plenty, somebody says.

And that's all good and well, but it's not the same as a man’s versatile tongue licking you hot.

I can see you now: your hands rubbing your breasts, thighs, his head, back up to your breasts again--a loop--delicious. He can, if he knows how to do it, ratchet up the moments before the deed with his tongue, or his fingers. To him, it's like sucking a lollipop.

And if he doesn't know how to do it (he probably does; who am I kidding?) don't be afraid to show him how to touch you, especially your ultimate moan zone, or tell him. But I should point out: have down there cleanse for a pleasant experience. We like cleanliness, too.

When I watch my girl purr with excitement, moans and groans with erotic pleasure, as I flick her clitor's with my tongue, I know I'm doing something she likes. My work sends her skyward, and she'd lose all sense of direction.

Uh, huh! I thought, I know what to do. . . .

He'll keep you on an erotic edge when he goes down south and flick the doors of your pleasure zone with his tongue. On somewhat equal footing is the use of his fingers. If you're getting into discovering the other uses of your fingers, I'm not saying you're naive to it, just let me say that women have used theirs ever since they discovered pleasuring themselves long, long ago. So his fingers also possess the same motions to launch you into orbit.

A Naughty Hint

On to the other contacts your clitor's will make over the next, what shall I say, days, months, years, with some facts. Whether coming in contact with his manhood, toys, fingers, etc., it will encounter something hard, or versatile.To rival his manhood in size, "The [vagin'l] wall is, in fact, the [clitor's]," said Dr O'Connell, who is based in Melbourne, Australia.

"If you lift the skin off the [vagin'l] on the side walls, you get the bulbs of the clitor's - triangular, crescental masses of erectile tissue."

"The glands are dense with nerve endings and receptors - all the vibration and sensation is there." The bulk of it is shaped like a pyramid, she said.

It contains nerve "endings and receptors" capable of getting you off; men can service their women with pleasure by paying close attention to it, or flicking it with their tingues.

The average [manhood] contains nearly 4,000 nerve endings, according to The Kinsey Institute for Research in Sex, Gender and Reproduction. . . . The [clitor's] not only contains the same amount of nerve endings as the entire [pen's], but those nerve endings are condensed into a little mass roughly the size of a pencil eraser, suggests Andra DeForest, columnist.

Many men are clueless that they can send their women skyhigh by stimulating their [clitor's], DeForest says. "I won't name names, but a significant portion . . . "almost all" of my past . . . partners, all of whom were male, were virtually unable to find my magic button on their own. Some even skipped it entirely - big mistake."

I can understand why they'd place it low on the list of foreplay techniques. Probably a dislike of such a salty, fresh taste., and if they do it at all, it's to give you your pleasures worth. It tastes much better with my erectile application sealed into it.

Few, however, know how to massage it. "And usually once it was located," said DeForest, "it was either awkwardly tapped like a broken morse code machine or practically burned off because homeboy was pretending to scratch records instead of trying to get me off." I wonder why he'd be reduced to such characterizations by this writer, but I'll leave that to you.

So, back to the issue of the lack of knowledge not knowing how to stimulate the clitor's. Let's suppose he--your lover, man, hubby, husband, whatever you call him--doesn't know how to stimulate you enough, and you want more out of both of your dirty assortments encompassing your naughty life. Don’t beat him over the head with his ignorance.

Let him off the hook easily by giving him free eBook offers on the internet. I'll tell you why that gesture is, by virtue of its intimate hint, hugely rewarding.

He gets his hands on one of these free eBook offers, reads them, he accumulates stimulation knowledge, and the results to all this? You'll get from him what you've always craved: unspeakable pleasure because he'll know how to open the doors of your moan zone down south.

Once the foreplay technique is firmly in him, you've done your job. All you have to do now is relax and let him have you.

Can he use his finger and stimulate you without the slightest discomfort? Of course! But make sure his fingers are clean. You don't want him transferring microbes, or germs, into you. His manhood does that, you might say, with all the STDs going around. We all know that, these days. That's why, I might add, you should ask for medical records in your first meeting. But I deverged.

It's the ultimate in pleasure package when you let him lick, massage, or even take yours into his mouth and suck it like he would suck a lollipop. How do you feel? The payoff is huge. Does he know how to touch it just right for the ultimate pleasure you crave?

If he doesn't know how, don't worry.

I should say you'll have to speak up and let him know what pleases you. If he’s clueless on touching you just right to send you through the roof, tell, or show, him how to do it and enjoy undiscovered pleasure minus the discomfort in rough pleasure.

Don't get me wrong. You may like that sort of thing--a masochist, the type of women who enjoys discomfort with a huge member reaching their vertebra. Believe me, some of us have reached that far.

On the other hand, if you want the deed blissful, then telling, or showing, him how to pleasure you by stimulating your clitor's is a must and can help rather than displeasure you.

All the glory associated with his manhood plunging in and out of you dissipated when he massages your clitor's.

Will you let me in to adore and please you with excitement 'cause I wouldn't know the pleasure you've been getting from him, but I know and have watched my girl purr with pleasure when I stimulate her clitor's similarly to right.

To lick your moan zone, touch it with my fingers, means you're caught up in a cloud of pleasure to ride in ecstasy.

You know how you feel when you’ve touched it; you tell him what is pleasing to you and what degree of massage he should use to send you through the roof.

Before The Deed

And he can stimulate your clitor's with his member elongated the the lips of your slit, massaging it with every movement he makes outside you. Try it. However, that's not the same as when he stimulates you with his tongue, but it carries this rigidity firmly on the clitor's to pressure it.

As DeForest says--and she's a woman--"[vagin'l] intercourse alone for most women is about as . . . arousing as a bumpy car ride. That may sound harsh, but you try having your partner climb to the peak of Mount Orgasm by thrusting his junk in and out of your business for an extended period of time, all without enough stimulation to cross the threshold from "eh, this is alright" to those moments of bliss you so rightfully deserve." (She's underestimating my manhood here and the relervancy of my hanhood--I've got a problem with ". . . thrusting his junk . . .imagery).

You probably have a different opinion on DeForest's characterizations of my manhood; however, when he knows how to stimulate you tongue switch, it's a huge plus for you. Let him take you there with foreplay. Heard of it?

Not withstanding the little vibrating gadgets replacing his manhood, tongue, or fingers, as the tool of choice massaging your clitor's, women want to achieve orgasm with a tongue twist. Sadly, not many women can achieve orgasm from intercourse alone, but to reach orgasmic nirvana is almost completely contingent on how much attention you pay to your clitor's, suggests DeForest.

Again, if he doesn't know you enough yet, give him a VIP tour of the dynamics of your little pyramid of sensation. He should pay attention to your body's responds to his touch and listen to your instructions: faster, slower, more or less pressure. Now try telling him that.

To ease friction, use Rite Aid lubrication when it's slow in-coming from your vagin' to avoid the pesky burning sensation. Once you're ready for the big show, choose positions that allow him to have a free hand to continue clitor'l stimulation, or positions in which you can pleasure yourself, Andre suggests.

Rubbed the right way, look out. Here comes your big O.

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