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The Best Sex Positions For A Woman To Achieve Orgasm During Sex

By: Robert Thomson

Men! Your lover wants an orgasm during your lovemaking!

Though she may not want to come every time you make love, she certainly isn't going to be too happy if sex ends when you've ejaculated, turned over and gone to sleep! The surest way to ensure her sexually contentment is to make sure she's had an orgasm before you ejaculate. There are several sex positions which are more likely to make this happen. So, without further ado, here's our suggested list of sex positions that will let her get the orgasm she craves, while also making sure you don't miss out on your orgasm!

First of all, if you haven't tried sex in the woman on top, then check it out! Many women like being uppermost when it comes to enjoying sex - it's a position that allows them to move in the way that gives them the greatest chance of an orgasm, whether that's through stimulation of the clitoris or G spot stimulation. She can rock her hips and pelvis much more in this position, and because she's in charge of her movements, she's likely to get some orgasmic satisfaction. She can either press her clitoris against the shaft of your penisgrind it against your pubic mound, or lean back or forwards so that her vagina gets pressure it needs to get her to orgasm. If you can last long enough before you ejaculate, this is the position that gives her the greatest chance of attaining orgasm during sexual intercourse.

If she wants to increase the sensations in her vagina, she can squeeze your penis with her PC muscles: that will increase your pleasure, and it will certainly add to the pressure on her G spot - and therefore increase the chances of her having an orgasm. (Female ejaculation is a new idea for many men - but basically, if her vagina is stimulated for long enough, and in the right way, when she achieves her reaches orgasm, the fluid that collects in glands around her urethra will squirt out during the muscular contractions of her orgasm.)

And another advantage of woman on top sex is that you can enjoy the sight of her breasts, and caress them as she rides your penis. Of course, if she's facing away from you, then you have the pleasure of watching her buttocks as she moves. But a lot of men find this position, known as the Reverse Cowgirl,uncomfortable because it bends the penis too much.

And what next? Well, the good ol' man on top position. But before you groan, think again. Many women like missionary position sex, because it allows for really deep penetration and connection, a thing that women adore. And men like the position too! Sex in the man on top position, when the woman has her legs bent upwards, her knees near her chest, gives you really deep penetration and the chance to thrust deeply and powerfully. What's more, if you have a penis that curves upwards when it's erect, as many do, then sex in the man on top position will allow your penis to thrust against her G spot as you make love. Combine this with a little clitoral play, either with a vibrator or with your fingers, and you have the best of all possible worlds for her!

As a refinement, you can stop thrusting your hips, and move your hips in a circular pattern. The penis moves in a very interesting way in the vagina! This sex position is called Churning The Butter in Tantric sex circles, and it can send her into a long-lasting orgasm. Another variation of man on top sex is to use eight shallow thrusts followed by one deep one. The shallow thrust should just press on her G spot, so don't go more than a few centimetres into her vagina when you try this.

Another great idea for her to achieve orgasm is to have her sit upon a table or, alternatively, any other surface where you can enter her vagina as you stand in front of her with her legs apart. making love in this position is great because you can thrust into her while you kiss and hold each other. To increase the chances of her reaching orgasm, apply a little extra clitoral attention. In any case, in this position your regular thrusting may catch her G spot in the way needed to bring her to a rapid climax. It's also a lot more stimulating to be having sex in an unusual position and out of the bedroom. The added excitement of this can help take you both to a quicker and more powerful climax.

Next, there's a very gentle and easy sex position known as the "spoons" position. She lies on her side with her back towards you, while you enter her vagina from behind. This is a very easy position to get into, particularly if she lifts her upper leg a little bit while you push into her. The best thing about this sex positions is how good it feels - for both of you. You can reach around her, fondle her breasts, and kiss back, while she (or you) can play with her clitoris. Another great variation of this position is the opportunity to make love on your sides as you face each other.

The best way to get into this position is by starting from the normal man on top, have her raise her knees towards her chest and then roll over onto your sides (agree which way you're going first!)). You can keep thrusting for much longer in this position before you ejaculate, as there's much less pressure on your penis. And, with the right attention, and perhaps a helping rub on or around her clitoris, she may even reach orgasm before you do, so you can have the pleasure of being triggered into your own orgasm by feeling her coming around your penis inside her vagina.

And lastly, what about the thrill of the rear entry sex position? This primal position is many men's favorite position for sex, being so rude and raunchy, and men often come quickly. But lots of women like it too, and there are plenty of good reasons for this. It allows deep penetration, it allows her to express her sexuality to the full, letting her thrust and ride her lover as she wishes, and, best of all, it hits her G spot! Rear entry sex is very primal, particularly if you reach forward and hold her hips and direct her movements. If she raises or lowers her hips, you'll get a lot of variation in sensation - so you can find the exact position that gives you both the greatest pleasure.

There you are, then: a series of sex positions which give you a chance of the woman's orgasm during sex. But if you're the man, and these positions don't help her reach orgasm on their own, don't worry. Make sure sure she has her orgasm from oral sex or masturbation before you enter her, and you'll both be abe to enjoy sex to the full.

Being able to reach orgasm during intercourse feels great, but don't forget there are plenty of other ways of getting orgasmic satisfaction!

Article Source: ADB Article Directory

Rod Phillips advises on sexual issues at Sex and Love.



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